15 hours ago
Love is magical, but it is not magic.
yes, love is beautiful. it’s wonderful to be in love and to have someone to share your highs and your lows with. it’s wonderful to have someone who will hold you through your worst moments and lift you up when you can’t even lift yourself. it’s an awe-inspiring thing to experience, to have.
but it isn’t going to save your life. it isn’t going to heal your heart.
only you can do that. only you can make your heart whole again. only you can restart your life and turn it into something that you want to be experiencing. only you can transform your life and your dreams and your destiny.
and as powerful as love is, it is not as powerful as you.
you see, you need to be the main character in your story. the hero of your own fairytale. there is not one person that is more important in your own life, than you.
so stop looking for love. stop chasing it. stop running for it. i know you’re tired. i know you’re lonely. but you’re the only one who can fix that. you are the only one can learn to love yourself. you are the only one who can work on being kinder to yourself. on healing yourself.
and you need to do it on your own.
be your own boyfriend, your own best friend and your own lover. be the person who lifts yourself up. who believes in your own dreams and your own fantasies. be your own number one fan and your own number one supporter.
save yourself — only you can do that, darling.