9 hours ago
I have the pants i’m wearing for saturday at home but i needed a shirt for it! and the black is what i chose 🖤
these are victories for me. after having a son i said to myself it wouldn’t matter how much weight i lost or how flat my stomach was again because i was never going to be able to get rid of the stretch marks. you get told to embrace them and love them and i didn’t know how that was going to work. i felt ugly. i thought i was going to be stuck feeling that way the rest of my life. so walking in the store i eliminated so many options for myself and if i still had that mindset of i’m not good enough or pretty enough or flawless enough this trip today would have ended with me frustrated, hating myself, and crying. .
so when i see people rocking the body they have and i hear the whispers in the corner i applaud the person they are talking about. they learned something the whisperers didn’t ((self love)) . love isn’t a size, it’s a mentality. so work on yourself, find your strengths, find your passion, and see all the things that are great about you and explore them and let those things grow! only then will you be unstoppable 🔥