36 minutes ago
Do you have room in your relationships? room to expand into yourself, to grow, to explore, to feel your feelings, to express your needs, to dare greatly?
your relationship is not an itchy wool sweater. if you feel claustrophobic, you don’t [necessarily] have to pull it off, toss it on the floor and run around naked. spaciousness in relationships is something that we build, not something that we just luck our way into.
will every person in the world be emotionally equipped to build a relationship that has room for us? nope. absolutely not. but we won’t know until we try. and if people are willing to show up to their own internal work, they can learn.
it starts with you getting real with your own self about what you need. where do you need more room for you? what do you miss from the you you had before the relationship?
if you have it already — spacious relationships that have beautiful connection and room for you — celebrate that ish, and keep cultivating it with the amazing humans in your life.
p.s. this inn’t just for the couples in the house. same goes for friendships and family relationships. [image description: i’m sitting in a field of golden grasses, wearing a grey jumpsuit and looking at the camera, with soft sunlight behind me.]