2 hours ago
So it’s been a minute. i had to take a step back from life and figure out some issues with my partner. we weren’t seeing eye to eye on a few things, and i needed to step back from being overly into my role as step mama. i still am not happy with the way bm messages fh, i can only tell him how i feel and how it makes me feel to see if he will address it. if not, this might not be the right relationship for me. he says he’s going to, but whether he does or not is up to him and i just have to trust and hope he will. life is full of ups and downs, but now i’m more focused on my life and dreams, my sks are still my focus, but their primary parents can do more of the parenting, whilst i take time to reflect on myself.