3 minutes ago
Don’t judge people.
always look for the positive in an individual- then you won’t have to judge them if you’re looking for something positive.
be at the point where you can help people. also- don’t hesitate to call for help. or to delegate something to somebody.
the most important thing is family. take time to make family important in your life. when we were first married, i had two jobs and college and church callings and kids. i always had time for family... mostly because of my wife. she does the “family organization”. my wife doesn’t miss a birthday or anniversary. this house is notorious for parties. it’s all because my wife taught the importance of gathering, keeping in touch and doing. it takes a lot of effort. i’m the errand boy. that’s my part of it.
we are always doing things for one another. we were trying to fix our bed and my wife just called her brother and the next night three of his sons were here to help.
if you ask for help, it helps them as much as you. it makes them feel important... that they are needed. we all need to be needed.