27 minutes ago
I used to think about butterfly everytime i heard the word transformation, but life has schooled me. transformation isn't a butterfly, it's the thing before you get a pretty buy flying away. its huddling in the dark cocoon and then pushing your way out..its the messy work ahead of you..of making sense of your fortunes and misfortunes, desires and doubts, hang ups and sorrows, actions and accidents, mistakes and successes. so you can go and become the person you must next become. the one who doesn't wallow in her own despair.