2 days ago
- - i want to share something i feel strongly about. i have always been on the curvy side and hence i haven’t felt good many many times about my body which impacted how i felt about everything and everyone around me. on thé outside i appeared very confident and head strong but on the inside i was riddled with insecurities and felt ashamed of my body (some rare moments, i still do). :
that’s the most terrible thing you can do for yourself. don’t be so h*****n yourself. if you aren’t happy about something, you can work on it. but you can’t start any journey if you aren’t in love with yourself or respect yourself. it sounds cliche but it’s the one thing that matters the most - how do you feel about yourself? - if you feel great, you don’t care about others. if not, then everyone’s opinion matters. .
the only reason i want to share this is because, you don’t know what the other person is feeling on the inside, be a little compassionate and say a kind word. you’ll forget about the kind word soon enough, but it could make some one’s day or week or even year. and that’s something. don’t shy away from giving a compliment. everyone needs to hear something good about themselves regularly. it’s just a feel good! .
i endeavour to say a kind word to any one who i speak to or meet and let’s support each other for in this hyper connected world, we need more support than ever. .
if you ever want to talk or just share your story - you can dm! #sharethelove #meanit #dontfakeit