Life gets better once you start doing your own thing. stop comparing yourself it means to stop with the negative self talk, your brain is lying to you. train it to tell the beautiful truth.
it means to look ahead of you, not behind, not to the side. pay no attention to the strangers around you until you can look at them and feel peace in your heart. you do not have to compromise your self love because someone else is beautiful, successful etc. you can be beautiful too, don’t worry.