6 hours ago
Long important read: 💕if i could post these pictures everyday, i would. ( my saying i can’t but then i wouldn’t be showing any other content). i’ve said it before and i’ll repeat myself again because i think it’s so important to touch on. i got “questioned” / “ judged” on the first 2 pictures. “why do you still look pregnant?” .. or “ i didn’t look like that after i had my baby” , and i’ve had women come to me asking why they still looked pregnant after 2 dats or 4 days or 6 days. ladies, my friends... we just had a baby! our bodies went through something for the past 8-9 months ( i say 8 because noah came 5 weeks early). our bodies had so much going on!! its okay to still look pregnant after a months, never mind 2,3, or 5 days later! don’t ever think it’s not okay! y’all just did something amazing! we take care of our babies and we can take care of ourselves too! i also get judged by not being with my baby 24/7 as if i can’t take of myself or have “me” time. okay first of all , we are allowed to have “me” time, we are allowed to take care of ourselves too! does our baby needs it’s momma? yes they do!, but we need ourselves too. ladies, when you’re baby is sleeping,do what you want to do whether it’s sleeping too, exercising, reading, shopping, doing your nails, having s*x ( yessss i went there people 🤷🏽♀️) and obviously this is after your first postpartum visit and the md gives you the ok 👍🏽 . ladies, i will always say this till i am blue on the face, everyone is different. everyone’s journey will be different. i am not you and you are not me. this may work for me and it may not work for you. don’t ever feel the need to race to get to your pre pregnancy body because it took us 8-9 months to have our baby. and don’t ever let someone make you feel like you aren’t do enough for your child and don’t need “me” time. you are allowed to! we are allowed to!