✨catching up✨ i used to be so h*****n myself when i couldn't make it on social media every day to reply, connect, or just see what's going on. y'all, i let that go. i had three yt channels and all the updating... 😓 chile. i was a hot mess. 💯
part of my self care now, is allowing myself to live in my real-life moments, like really live and absorb them now. so if i miss a few days on social media i know that's okay. i know that i can always catch up and connect when i'm balanced and ready to socialize. [did y'all forget i'm still an introvert 😆and socializing of any kind is exhausting 😩]
remember that you make your own rules. s***w what "social media gurus" tell you about "keeping up" or "always being there." you can drive yourself mad trying to always be available for the digital world. allowing your real world to fall apart to keep up appearances in the digital world... for the birds. 💯i will always be there for my digital communities, and my friends online, y'all are my online family. it's just, over the years i've also learned to put my mental and physical health in that hierarchy of "things that are important." and i've noticed that i've been much better for it, both my personal life and professional.
sorry for all the long paragraphs lately... just been having a lot on my mind. anyways, love y'all, and be kind to yourself. #thatisall
ps. my hair is definitely flipping the bird. i didn't tell it to... i'm sorry, it makes its own decisions.... the opinions of the naptural85 hair do not reflect the opinions of whitney white #officialstatement #disclaimer #naturalhair