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@notsoscary_stepmonster

notsoscary_stepmonster
I'm just going to leave this here... .
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I love all the beautiful women in my step momma tribe (but I won't forget those amazing step daddies too!) y'all are always here to lift me up, listen to me vent, and share in this remarkable and sometimes frustrating journey! Yall are so strong and have such beautiful hearts.  Thank you guys for being in my stepmonster tribe!
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#stepmomlife #stepmonster #stepmomtribe #stopdropandmom #momlife #blendedfamily #stepmomconfessions #motherhood #strongwomenraisingstrongwomen #bonusmom #womenempowerment #womenempoweringwomen #weallhavecrowns #lifteachotherup
2 30 5 hours ago
I'm just going to leave this here... .
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i love all the beautiful women in my step momma tribe (but i won't forget those amazing step daddies too!) y'all are always here to lift me up, listen to me vent, and share in this remarkable and sometimes frustrating journey! yall are so strong and have such beautiful hearts. thank you guys for being in my stepmonster tribe!
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#stepmomlife #stepmonster #stepmomtribe #stopdropandmom #momlife #blendedfamily #stepmomconfessions #motherhood #strongwomenraisingstrongwomen #bonusmom #womenempowerment #womenempoweringwomen #weallhavecrowns #lifteachotherup

@stepmomconfessions

stepmomconfessions
God makes no mistakes 🖕🏽 #ThatSucks #StepMomConfessions.
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#stepmom#stepmama#stepmum#stepmommy #stepmomma #stepkids #stepson #stepdaughter #babymama #babymamadrama #childcustody #childsupport
15 269 2 weeks ago
God makes no mistakes 🖕🏽 #thatsucks #stepmomconfessions.
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#stepmom#stepmama#stepmum#stepmommy #stepmomma #stepkids #stepson #stepdaughter #babymama #babymamadrama #childcustody #childsupport

@lalaloral

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Step Mother: One who does all the things a biological mom does but is degraded regardless of how great she is. She loves and cares for another women’s children with all she is, while putting her happiness second. She invests her heart and soul into children she did not carry because her love is a choice. She sustains mistreatment yet in her heart she knows she is in this position for a reason and stands steadfast in her battle. She is portrayed as being “evil” or a “monster” yet she is not here to take your place, just to love your children. Her heart is over joyed with words and emotions when those children put their little hands on her face and kiss her good night. Tears come to her eyes when she thinks of the thoughts of them growing up and leaving. She waits for the day she will be acknowledged and appreciated, by the other women who loves those same children, for she is a mother too.
25 122 last month
Step mother: one who does all the things a biological mom does but is degraded regardless of how great she is. she loves and cares for another women’s children with all she is, while putting her happiness second. she invests her heart and soul into children she did not carry because her love is a choice. she sustains mistreatment yet in her heart she knows she is in this position for a reason and stands steadfast in her battle. she is portrayed as being “evil” or a “monster” yet she is not here to take your place, just to love your children. her heart is over joyed with words and emotions when those children put their little hands on her face and kiss her good night. tears come to her eyes when she thinks of the thoughts of them growing up and leaving. she waits for the day she will be acknowledged and appreciated, by the other women who loves those same children, for she is a mother too.

@thestepmomsclub

thestepmomsclub
This is a fantastic post from the amazing @stepmom_tribe ! Also, where can we get this ring, please?!
#Repost @stepmom_tribe
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Stepmoms, because I know we need the reminder—  you are a BADASS. You took this lifelong commitment willingly. And through the stress, drama and the thankless days, here you stand— living another day and making it count. You are inspiring and leave me in awe. Thank you for what you do. Know you have a tribe supporting you every step of the way. We love you!
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1 38 4 weeks ago
This is a fantastic post from the amazing @stepmom_tribe ! also, where can we get this ring, please?!
#repost @stepmom_tribe
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stepmoms, because i know we need the reminder— you are a badass. you took this lifelong commitment willingly. and through the stress, drama and the thankless days, here you stand— living another day and making it count. you are inspiring and leave me in awe. thank you for what you do. know you have a tribe supporting you every step of the way. we love you!




#stepmom #family #stepparenting #stepmotherhood #stepkids #stepchildren #stepmomproblems #marriage #stepmomlife #stepmomconfessions

@notsoscary_stepmonster

notsoscary_stepmonster
I'm going to be honest with you guys.  I haven't been very motivated to talk to y'all,  or post any of my thoughts the last week or so.  I've been in my own head since BM called and told us SD doesn't want to live with us anymore.  I'm shocked.  I'm hurt.  I'm confused.  I just can't believe those words came out of my minis mouth. And now we haven't been able to call or talk to her.  But my mommy duties keep going,  we have 2 birthday parties to plan for her,  gifts to buy,  back to school supplies,  clothes,  the best lunch snacks in the school.  So as usual my last half of the summer is filled with making sure she has all the coolest stuff and anything she could imagine.  Putting our date nights,  or any shopping for me aside.  Making new chore charts,  and new ways to make homework fun.  But yet I've been heart broken this year doing it.  What if I lose my girl? What about all those people reminding me she isn't really my girl? And then part of me is so in doubt that she really feels that way after all she's told me that I just want my mini to be home and safe from any manipulation from BM.  So it's officially 2 weeks until we get to drive 10 hours to get her and I'm counting the days.  I think I'll hug her the entire way home.
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 But I realized this is why I have YOU GUYS. In times like this, when I want to hide is when I need y'all support and strength. So here I am.  Missing my mini and ready for summer to end. But I missed y'all too! So tell me about your summers! ☀ 💕 .
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#stepmomtribe #stepmomconfessions #stepmonster #blendedfamilylove #blendedfamily #momlife #myminimonster #sidekicks #bonusmom #summerlovin #coparenting #custodyorders #beachbums #vitaminsea
20 54 5 weeks ago
I'm going to be honest with you guys. i haven't been very motivated to talk to y'all, or post any of my thoughts the last week or so. i've been in my own head since bm called and told us sd doesn't want to live with us anymore. i'm shocked. i'm hurt. i'm confused. i just can't believe those words came out of my minis mouth. and now we haven't been able to call or talk to her. but my mommy duties keep going, we have 2 birthday parties to plan for her, gifts to buy, back to school supplies, clothes, the best lunch snacks in the school. so as usual my last half of the summer is filled with making sure she has all the coolest stuff and anything she could imagine. putting our date nights, or any shopping for me aside. making new chore charts, and new ways to make homework fun. but yet i've been heart broken this year doing it. what if i lose my girl? what about all those people reminding me she isn't really my girl? and then part of me is so in doubt that she really feels that way after all she's told me that i just want my mini to be home and safe from any manipulation from bm. so it's officially 2 weeks until we get to drive 10 hours to get her and i'm counting the days. i think i'll hug her the entire way home.
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but i realized this is why i have you guys. in times like this, when i want to hide is when i need y'all support and strength. so here i am. missing my mini and ready for summer to end. but i missed y'all too! so tell me about your summers! ☀ 💕 .
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#stepmomtribe #stepmomconfessions #stepmonster #blendedfamilylove #blendedfamily #momlife #myminimonster #sidekicks #bonusmom #summerlovin #coparenting #custodyorders #beachbums #vitaminsea

@_stepmomgoals_

_stepmomgoals_
You are growing.🌺 You are blossoming.🌼 Don't sit there and scroll past this post with the thought that you are not getting better with these  #StepmomThings. 🤨🤔 Because you really ARE. 😁 It may not feel like it and it may hurt😢, but keep trusting yourself. As you begin to believe that you are getting better, you will continue to feel more and more confident😎😏. YOU ARE BRAVE... and getting better and better each day. You go girl. 👑💕 #affirmations💚 #stepmomintraining #stepmommyproud #affirmationfortheday #stepmommalife #stepmomsaremomstoo #stepmommoments #stepmomconfessions #stepmomblog #affirmationthursday #stepmommystatus #stepmomadventures #stepmomwisdom #stepmomlife❤️ #stepmomblogger #affirmationaday #stepmomtobe
0 12 last month
You are growing.🌺 you are blossoming.🌼 don't sit there and scroll past this post with the thought that you are not getting better with these #stepmomthings. 🤨🤔 because you really are. 😁 it may not feel like it and it may hurt😢, but keep trusting yourself. as you begin to believe that you are getting better, you will continue to feel more and more confident😎😏. you are brave... and getting better and better each day. you go girl. 👑💕 #affirmations💚 #stepmomintraining #stepmommyproud #affirmationfortheday #stepmommalife #stepmomsaremomstoo #stepmommoments #stepmomconfessions #stepmomblog #affirmationthursday #stepmommystatus #stepmomadventures #stepmomwisdom #stepmomlife❤️ #stepmomblogger #affirmationaday #stepmomtobe

@notsoscary_stepmonster

notsoscary_stepmonster
Y'all,  this was sent to me and the truth and reality of it needs to be shared.  So,  I'll just leave this right here. .
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Let me know what y'all think either way.  I'm interested in where the parents stand, if we are honest with ourselves, in your family. .
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I have a problem with finding this balance, especially as a stepmom.  I need my relationship with DH to be a priority but I make my SD my priority in everything,  spoiled,  want her to feel part of us, and being entitled is def one of the behaviors we've been seeing from her lately and punishing. My DH does a great job at this though so hopefully he keeps holding it down while I catch up. .
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#entitled #parentsarenumberone #familydynamics #peakingorder #bonusmom #blendedfamily #stepmonster #stepmom #betterparents #generation #stepmomconfessions #parenting #spoilyourspouse #teamwork
7 51 last month
Y'all, this was sent to me and the truth and reality of it needs to be shared. so, i'll just leave this right here. .
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let me know what y'all think either way. i'm interested in where the parents stand, if we are honest with ourselves, in your family. .
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i have a problem with finding this balance, especially as a stepmom. i need my relationship with dh to be a priority but i make my sd my priority in everything, spoiled, want her to feel part of us, and being entitled is def one of the behaviors we've been seeing from her lately and punishing. my dh does a great job at this though so hopefully he keeps holding it down while i catch up. .
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#entitled #parentsarenumberone #familydynamics #peakingorder #bonusmom #blendedfamily #stepmonster #stepmom #betterparents #generation #stepmomconfessions #parenting #spoilyourspouse #teamwork

@notsoscary_stepmonster

notsoscary_stepmonster
It's been a rough 24 hours to say the least.  BM called yesterday with some interesting words, accusations, openly admitted she doesn't have SD call us on purpose in the summer and telling us SD wants to live with her now. I just don't believe it.  I feel heart broken and angry.  I don't feel like this is really coming from SD and it sucks I can't speak to her to understand. I've been at a loss on what to do or how to help.  This will be the 3rd custody battle over SD.  But in the process of it all I remembered my one Golden Rule to be the best stepmom.  I actually posted it on the blog earlier in the week and the holiday got the best of me and I forgot to share it with y'all,  but maybe the timing is perfect because I needed this reminder now too.  Because really I wanna punch a baby momma in the face... But that's not good,  right? 😂 .
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#goldenrule #stepmomtribe #stepmonster #stepmomconfessions #stepmomwarrior #bonusmom #stepmomproblems #momlife #blendedfamily #blendedfamilies #coparentingproblems #onlyruleifollow #imissmymini #brokenstepmom #newpost #blogpost #ebabloggers
15 34 last month
It's been a rough 24 hours to say the least. bm called yesterday with some interesting words, accusations, openly admitted she doesn't have sd call us on purpose in the summer and telling us sd wants to live with her now. i just don't believe it. i feel heart broken and angry. i don't feel like this is really coming from sd and it sucks i can't speak to her to understand. i've been at a loss on what to do or how to help. this will be the 3rd custody battle over sd. but in the process of it all i remembered my one golden rule to be the best stepmom. i actually posted it on the blog earlier in the week and the holiday got the best of me and i forgot to share it with y'all, but maybe the timing is perfect because i needed this reminder now too. because really i wanna punch a baby momma in the face... but that's not good, right? 😂 .
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#goldenrule #stepmomtribe #stepmonster #stepmomconfessions #stepmomwarrior #bonusmom #stepmomproblems #momlife #blendedfamily #blendedfamilies #coparentingproblems #onlyruleifollow #imissmymini #brokenstepmom #newpost #blogpost #ebabloggers

@notsoscary_stepmonster

notsoscary_stepmonster
Shout out to my Mister monster for putting up with my Cardi  B jam sessions even though im so blessed to have an amazing man by my side.. He had his ain't shhh days too though 🤣😂🤣
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#supportyourspouse #cardib #mistermonsterrocks #stepmomconfessions #stepmonster #momlife #happywifehappylife #wifeymaterial
1 36 last month
Shout out to my mister monster for putting up with my cardi b jam sessions even though im so blessed to have an amazing man by my side.. he had his ain't shhh days too though 🤣😂🤣
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#supportyourspouse #cardib #mistermonsterrocks #stepmomconfessions #stepmonster #momlife #happywifehappylife #wifeymaterial

@notsoscary_stepmonster

notsoscary_stepmonster
Really really really missing my mini today.  It's been 3 weeks and I'm losing my mind wondering what I'm supposed to do while she's gone.  Granted we are busy,  but nothing is the same.  So here's a throwback to last spring when my mini beach bum and I were enjoying the ocean. .
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How's y'all summers going,  with or without your stepkids?! What are you doing to keep busy,  I could use some options!!
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#summerwithoutkids #stepmonster #stepmomconfessions #stepmom #bonusmom #bonuskids #stepdaughter #momlife #blendedfamily #blendedfamilyproblems #shesgoneallsummer #alreadyplanningherreturn #whyihatesummer #minimonster
1 40 last month
Really really really missing my mini today. it's been 3 weeks and i'm losing my mind wondering what i'm supposed to do while she's gone. granted we are busy, but nothing is the same. so here's a throwback to last spring when my mini beach bum and i were enjoying the ocean. .
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how's y'all summers going, with or without your stepkids?! what are you doing to keep busy, i could use some options!!
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#summerwithoutkids #stepmonster #stepmomconfessions #stepmom #bonusmom #bonuskids #stepdaughter #momlife #blendedfamily #blendedfamilyproblems #shesgoneallsummer #alreadyplanningherreturn #whyihatesummer #minimonster

@notsoscary_stepmonster

notsoscary_stepmonster
Hey Stepmonsters! We could really use your support.  We are trying to expand our tribe to facebook and would love for everyone to take a moment to slide over to the FB and like our page! And join our group to give and receive advice from eachother, or just vent! It's a private group so you can ask yourntribe what's really on your mind!
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Thanks for your support stepmonsters! Share this with any other step mom friends you think would like it too!
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We love you all! .
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#stepmonster #facebookgroup #facebook #facebookpage #stepmomlife #stepmomconfessions #stepmomtribe #stepmomwarrior #bonusmom #blendedlife #blendedfamily #bonuskids #stepkids #expandourtribe #weneedyoursupport #shareus #blog #ebabloggers
0 27 last month
Hey stepmonsters! we could really use your support. we are trying to expand our tribe to facebook and would love for everyone to take a moment to slide over to the fb and like our page! and join our group to give and receive advice from eachother, or just vent! it's a private group so you can ask yourntribe what's really on your mind!
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thanks for your support stepmonsters! share this with any other step mom friends you think would like it too!
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we love you all! .
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#stepmonster #facebookgroup #facebook #facebookpage #stepmomlife #stepmomconfessions #stepmomtribe #stepmomwarrior #bonusmom #blendedlife #blendedfamily #bonuskids #stepkids #expandourtribe #weneedyoursupport #shareus #blog #ebabloggers

@notsoscary_stepmonster

notsoscary_stepmonster
God is so good.  We've been having our daily storms here in flordia but that means we have these beautiful 🌈 too.  God has been opening so many doors for our family and im so excited for the future coming in the next couple of months! .
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#godisgood #stepmom #afterthestorm #rainbows #blendedfamilylove #bonusmom #itgetsbetter #thistooshallpass #momlife #stepmomconfessions  #blendedfamily #stepmomwarrior
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God is so good. we've been having our daily storms here in flordia but that means we have these beautiful 🌈 too. god has been opening so many doors for our family and im so excited for the future coming in the next couple of months! .
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#godisgood #stepmom #afterthestorm #rainbows #blendedfamilylove #bonusmom #itgetsbetter #thistooshallpass #momlife #stepmomconfessions #blendedfamily #stepmomwarrior