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Body Shaming, pasti kita udah ga asing lagi dengan kata ini. Body shaming adalah kegiatan mengkritik dan mengomentari secara negatif fisik tubuh diri sendiri maupun orang lain

Ternyata, tanpa kita sadari kita juga biasa melakukan body shaming dalam kehidupan sehari-hari. Entah antar perempuan dengan perempuan lainnya sampai kepada lawan jenis
Sering kali berkomentar negatif terhadap diri sendiri
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Body shaming, pasti kita udah ga asing lagi dengan kata ini. body shaming adalah kegiatan mengkritik dan mengomentari secara negatif fisik tubuh diri sendiri maupun orang lain

ternyata, tanpa kita sadari kita juga biasa melakukan body shaming dalam kehidupan sehari-hari. entah antar perempuan dengan perempuan lainnya sampai kepada lawan jenis
sering kali berkomentar negatif terhadap diri sendiri
"ih aku gendut banget sih, beda sama dia blablabla..." setiap berkaca seringnya mengomentari kekurangan fisik sendiri, jarang bersyukurnya
ada juga orang lain yang mengomentari fisik orang yang lainnya walau tanpa disengaja
"eh, tadi aku ketemu dia, sekarang dia gendut banget loh!" atau bahkan dengan alasan becanda "itu pipi atau bakpao?!" padahal allah menciptakan semua manusia dalam sebaik-baiknya bentuk, "sesungguhnya kami telah menciptakan manusia dalam bentuk yang sebaik-baiknya." (qs. at-tiin: 4)
dan allah melarang kita untuk mengolok-olok orang lain, “hai orang-orang yang beriman, janganlah suatu kaum mengolok-olokkan kaum yang lain, (karena) boleh jadi mereka (yang diolok-olokkan) lebih baik dari mereka (yang mengolok-olokkan), dan jangan pula wanita-wanita (mengolok-olokkan) wanita lain (karena) boleh jadi wanita-wanita (yang diperolok-olokkan) lebih baik dari wanita (yang mengolok-olokkan) dan janganlah kamu mencela dirimu sendiri dan janganlah kamu panggil memanggil dengan gelar-gelar yang buruk. seburuk-buruk panggilan ialah (panggilan) yang buruk sesudah iman dan barangsiapa yang tidak bertaubat, maka mereka itulah orang-orang yang zhalim.” (al-hujurat: 11)

begitupun rasulullah, beliau pun membenci body shaming
‘aisyah pernah merasa sangat cemburu terhadap shafiyah. shafiyah ini bertubuh pendek, ‘aisyah lalu menghina dengan isyarat, bahkan sebatas isyarat pun, rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam melarangnya, dari ‘aisyah radhiyallahu ‘anha
beliau berkata, "aku pernah berkata kepada nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam “cukup bagimu dari shafiyah “ini dan itu”. sebagian rawi berkata, ”aisyah mengatakan shafiyah pendek”.

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Dear, setiap manusia memang memiliki kelebihan dan kekurangan
Tapi sekalipun yang kita punya adalah kelebihan, tak ada artinya di hadapan-Nya kecuali jika itu menjadikan kita lebih taat kepada-Nya
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Mereka yang mencintaimu tak akan hanya memandang fisikmu, bisa jadi mereka mencintaimu karena keramahanmu, keshalihah-anmu atau mungkin karena kedermawananmu

Jangan hanya fokus dengan kekurangan yang ada pada dirimu, tapi fokuslah kembangkan potensi dan kelebihanmu. Karena Allah menciptakanmu dengan sebaik-baiknya rupa

Juga jangan mengurusi, mengomentari bahkan sampai mengolok-olok kekurangan orang lain
Perlakukanlah orang lain sebagaimana kamu ingin diperlakukan
“Barangsiapa ingin dijauhkan dari neraka dan masuk ke dalam surga, hendaknya ketika ia mati dalam keadaan beriman kepada Allah, dan hendaknya ia berperilaku kepada orang lain sebagaimana ia senang diperlakukan oleh orang lain.” (HR. Muslim, no. 1844)

#NilaiWanita #BodyShaming #StopBodyShaming
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Dear, setiap manusia memang memiliki kelebihan dan kekurangan
tapi sekalipun yang kita punya adalah kelebihan, tak ada artinya di hadapan-nya kecuali jika itu menjadikan kita lebih taat kepada-nya

mereka yang mencintaimu tak akan hanya memandang fisikmu, bisa jadi mereka mencintaimu karena keramahanmu, keshalihah-anmu atau mungkin karena kedermawananmu

jangan hanya fokus dengan kekurangan yang ada pada dirimu, tapi fokuslah kembangkan potensi dan kelebihanmu. karena allah menciptakanmu dengan sebaik-baiknya rupa

juga jangan mengurusi, mengomentari bahkan sampai mengolok-olok kekurangan orang lain
perlakukanlah orang lain sebagaimana kamu ingin diperlakukan
“barangsiapa ingin dijauhkan dari neraka dan masuk ke dalam surga, hendaknya ketika ia mati dalam keadaan beriman kepada allah, dan hendaknya ia berperilaku kepada orang lain sebagaimana ia senang diperlakukan oleh orang lain.” (hr. muslim, no. 1844)

#nilaiwanita #bodyshaming #stopbodyshaming
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Hey there 🙃🦋 i had so much fun answering your guys questions the other day via my instagram story, and want to be connecting/chatting with you all more often. i really appreciate the love, support, and the curiosity, and want to share my story more with you! if you have any more questions about my vitiligo, i am an open book, ask away! also.....t-minus 2 weeks until i am rolling around on the socal beaches again!
I was working on some blog content and saw two comments on our fertility post about me being “underweight” and “starving my body” and it reminded me that the “too skinny” conversation needs to be had again. I went on a long rant on insta stories about this but with over 400 replies in 2 hours of women going through similar situations and being shamed since they were kids I realized this is a bigger conversation that needs to be had. I know a lot of people don’t even mean anything hurtful by it, because being skinny can’t be bad right? But having people call you chicken legs, or telling you to go eat a burger, or just assuming you have an eating disorder. They all hurt as much as being called overweight. And now so many girls are messaging me saying they don’t feel pretty because guys tell them they are ugly for not having curves or not “thick”. Or moms saying their kids come home teased about being skinny and they don’t understand how to fix it. Or family asking them to watch what their kids eat cause they bet their daughter has an eating disorder. At any end of the spectrum body shaming hurts. We’ve made so many strides in excepting bodies of all shapes and sizes but this also goes for the little girls. We just need to continue to educate and have the conversation that all shapes and sizes are beautiful! Lets continue empowering women to feel more beautiful for who they are the WAY they are. #bodypositive
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I was working on some blog content and saw two comments on our fertility post about me being “underweight” and “starving my body” and it reminded me that the “too skinny” conversation needs to be had again. i went on a long rant on insta stories about this but with over 400 replies in 2 hours of women going through similar situations and being shamed since they were kids i realized this is a bigger conversation that needs to be had. i know a lot of people don’t even mean anything hurtful by it, because being skinny can’t be bad right? but having people call you chicken legs, or telling you to go eat a burger, or just assuming you have an eating disorder. they all hurt as much as being called overweight. and now so many girls are messaging me saying they don’t feel pretty because guys tell them they are ugly for not having curves or not “thick”. or moms saying their kids come home teased about being skinny and they don’t understand how to fix it. or family asking them to watch what their kids eat cause they bet their daughter has an eating disorder. at any end of the spectrum body shaming hurts. we’ve made so many strides in excepting bodies of all shapes and sizes but this also goes for the little girls. we just need to continue to educate and have the conversation that all shapes and sizes are beautiful! lets continue empowering women to feel more beautiful for who they are the way they are. #bodypositive
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Left Me: unhappy, constantly thinking about what I can and can't eat, thinking about losing more weight, and when I will exercise next. My mental health was extremely bad

Right Me: happier, eat when I want, exercise when I want and not feeling pressurised by myself or society on what I should look like. My mental health is also in a much better place.

Self love is a long process... and it comes hand in hand with your mental health. Your mental being is so important. 
I have come a long way in this journey. Lots of real tough times, but it has all been worth it. I still have a long way to go, and honestly I don't think it ever reaches a point where that's it and you never have a bad opinion about yourself. The way society is and how we have all been brought up to think one way, it's difficult to completely overcome that way of thinking, which is at no fault of our own.
But we need to be stronger and fight back towards society and break away from what's expected of us.
It's ok to not be what society expects of you. It's ok to love yourself just the way you are. You don't need to be doing anything to try and change the way you are. You are perfect just as you are ❤
Everyone has their own journey and paths and this one is mine.
I am at my heaviest and happiest. And right now I wouldn't change that for the world

#breakthestigma
#selfcare #breakingthestigmaofmentalillness 
#bodypositivemovement #bodypositive #empowerment #empoweringeachother #youarebeautiful #stopbodyshaming #yourbodyisbeautiful #effyourbeautystandards #embraceyourbody #allbodiesaregoodbodies #selflovejourney #selflove
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Left me: unhappy, constantly thinking about what i can and can't eat, thinking about losing more weight, and when i will exercise next. my mental health was extremely bad

right me: happier, eat when i want, exercise when i want and not feeling pressurised by myself or society on what i should look like. my mental health is also in a much better place.

self love is a long process... and it comes hand in hand with your mental health. your mental being is so important.
i have come a long way in this journey. lots of real tough times, but it has all been worth it. i still have a long way to go, and honestly i don't think it ever reaches a point where that's it and you never have a bad opinion about yourself. the way society is and how we have all been brought up to think one way, it's difficult to completely overcome that way of thinking, which is at no fault of our own.
but we need to be stronger and fight back towards society and break away from what's expected of us.
it's ok to not be what society expects of you. it's ok to love yourself just the way you are. you don't need to be doing anything to try and change the way you are. you are perfect just as you are ❤
everyone has their own journey and paths and this one is mine.
i am at my heaviest and happiest. and right now i wouldn't change that for the world

#breakthestigma #selfcare #breakingthestigmaofmentalillness
#bodypositivemovement #bodypositive #empowerment #empoweringeachother #youarebeautiful #stopbodyshaming #yourbodyisbeautiful #effyourbeautystandards #embraceyourbody #allbodiesaregoodbodies #selflovejourney #selflove
3Cs of Self-Love:
Chunky Jewellery, them Curves and the Confidence that could kill 💁
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Thanks everyone who thinks I have a beautiful face but suggests that I will look better if I lose a few kilos 😅 Guess what? I have priorities in life and trying to please you with my looks is not one of them 😊😘 .
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Jewellery @creyons_ (absolutely killer 😍 )
Dress @shadesofsummerofficial

#purpleclutcher #words #jewellery #curves #india
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3cs of self-love:
chunky jewellery, them curves and the confidence that could k**l 💁
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thanks everyone who thinks i have a beautiful face but suggests that i will look better if i lose a few kilos 😅 guess what? i have priorities in life and trying to please you with my looks is not one of them 😊😘 .
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jewellery @creyons_ (absolutely killer 😍 )
dress @shadesofsummerofficial

#purpleclutcher #words #jewellery #curves #india
MOOD 💥
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Mood 💥