8 hours ago
Oof, this was me. sometimes we are so busy licking our wounds and staying comfortable in our familiar pain that when something real comes along we self sabotage and push it away. it’s so much easier right? most of the time we’re attracting things that we haven’t healed, it’s easier to play out familiar cycles than actually face our bs and confront our unhealthy patterns and choose people who force us to grow out of our old ways. you only attract unavailable people, people who don’t choose you, people who don’t love you, when you are unavailable, you don’t choose you and you don’t love you. it’s all just a mirror for you to reflect on everything you’ve been lacking to give to yourself.